by Paul Pimblett

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Recently, a group of men discerning a vocation to the priesthood visited Allen Hall to gain an insight into the life of a seminarian. During their visit, one of them asked me a brilliant question that I had not anticipated and had to reflect upon for some time.

 

“What advice would you give yourself three years ago when you were just about to begin your formation journey?”

 

I have to admit, I struggled to find an immediate answer. As part of my regular meetings with my Spiritual Director, I often reflect on how I have grown since I began my time in seminary. However, I have rarely thought about how I could give advice to someone just starting out. Eventually I was able to give the man two pieces of advice. On a practical level, my advice was pray the Rosary; indeed this advice applies to us all. The Rosary is one of the most valuable tools we Catholics possess in drawing closer to the Lord through his Blessed Mother. Personally, I have found allocating a set time each day for the Rosary has given me great strength and comfort during an otherwise hectic schedule. By praying the Rosary, I have come to understand the maternal love of Our Lady more deeply as she accompanies me along my journey to priesthood, God willing.

 

However, the second piece of advice I gave the man was on a more personal level. I said that the one thing I would tell my past self would be to be patient. Being patient with oneself, the Church and with God is crucial. Patience cannot be taught or immediately instilled, it has to be tested and developed as we grow. I am nearly at the end of my third year in formation and there have been many times when I have needed to be patient, when I have slipped and fallen or have become frustrated. Moreover, I am certain I will continue to slip and fall in the future and continue to battle doubts, worries and fears. I will therefore need to keep trusting in the Lord and His immeasurable goodness as I grow in patience. Even if my words did not impress the discerner who had initially questioned me, he had certainly given me cause for reflection as we entered the season of Lent.

 

Our Lady of Sorrows,

Pray for us.